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Welcome! I’m the Out Officiant—your partner in crafting a ceremony that feels as genuine and unforgettable as the story you two share. From our first chat to the moment you say “I do,” I’ll guide you through personalized vows, bespoke rituals, and seamless planning tools so you can focus on what really matters: celebrating your love. No cookie-cutter scripts, no awkward moments—just a ceremony built entirely around you. Let’s make your wedding day truly yours.

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Photo Credit: Penny House Weddings

About

Hola! I'm Ernesto (he/him/él)...

I’m passionate about crafting personalized and inclusive wedding ceremonies that truly reflect your love story. Let’s get to know each other!

Photo Credit: Penny House Weddings

Love Notes from Real Couples

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"We had a wonderful ceremony with The Out Officiant. He was very responsive, took lots of feedback, and was a joy to have for the ceremony. And getting to know as he was able to capture our feelings for each other and he worked hard to make several things happen. For example, we wanted to physically tie a knot together since that was something that was happening in our relationship a lot and it was very sentimental. He actually crocheted the rope and then did a knot tying ceremony. Again we were very blessed to have him in our lives. He’s a great officiant."

Ashley S. 

Photo Credit: Vivian Chen Weddings

How does your pricing work?
As The Out Officiant, I strive to offer fair and transparent pricing that reflects the personalized service you’ll receive. My fees are based on the location of the ceremony and the time commitment from my home office in El Cerrito, CA.
 
I offer a 25% K-12 teacher discount because as a former teacher I know how teachers are overworked and underpaid.
 
Ceremony Only (No Rehearsal)
-Within 25 miles: $250
-25-50 miles: $350
-50+ miles: Starting at $500
 
Ceremony + Rehearsal
-Within 25 miles: $300
-25-50 miles: $400
-50+ miles: Starting at $550
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